MONROE, N.Y. (CBSNewYork) — An Orange County cemetery stated earlier this month that it was suing a household over the dimensions of their gravestone, and now a lady has come ahead saying the grave marker’s measurement has induced her issues too.
As CBS2’s Brian Conybeare reported solely Thursday, the lady stated the grave marker is so huge that it encroached on her father’s plot, they usually needed to dig up his physique and have it moved.
“His little marker was proper right here,” stated Casie Grasso.
Grasso buried her fifty five-yr-previous father on the historic Seamanville Cemetery in Monroe in 2014. However the heartache didn’t finish there.
“We went by way of two years of nothing however grief,” Grasso stated. “We’re joyful now that he’s in a spot the place he’s and we’re lastly capable of put him to relaxation — and we went by means of this, and it wasn’t truthful.”
Grasso stated the massive headstone that the cemetery is suing over, and its ornate memorial backyard, pressured her household to disinter her father’s stays and transfer him about 25 ft away.
“We weren’t capable of put up a gravestone, as a result of they really came to visit the strains with their rock backyard onto his plot,” Grasso stated.
The mother and father of 25-yr-previous automotive crash sufferer Aaron Vays are being sued by the cemetery over the dimensions of the marble gravestone, which is 6 inches too tall. The First Presbyterian Church of Monroe is threatening to tear all of it down and invoice the Vays household for the work – one thing they tearfully vowed to battle earlier ths month.
“I can’t grieve right here,” Polina Vays – the mom of Aaron Vays – stated on Nov. thirteen. “I’m afraid they’re going to return and take the monument down, however to take the monument down they should take me down first.”
The Vays memorial consists of photo voltaic-powered lights, a bench, a number of vases with synthetic flowers, and even a chook feeder and birdhouses on a close-by tree an and urn used as an ashtray.
The cemetery guidelines posted in a mailbox close to the doorway clearly state that no synthetic decorations are allowed within the 234-yr-previous graveyard. That rule bans lights, vases, and urns.
“It’s a must to have respect for different individuals and what the legal guidelines are and what the principles are,” Grasso stated. “You must abide by them, and none of this might’ve occurred”
The Vays household’s lawyer stated the cemetery “mismarked the gravesites” and that they solely discovered that out whereas constructing the monument. They stated they’ve large “sympathy and empathy” for neighboring…